§ MEMBER TERMS
Founding cohort terms.
What you agree to when you take a founding-member spot. Plain English, no buried clauses, version-tagged at the top so you can tell when it changed.
UPDATED 19 MAY 2026 · VERSION v1.1 · SMASH DADDYS LTD · REGISTERED IN ENGLAND
§ 01 · WHO WE ARE
HOTMESS London is operated by Smash Daddys Ltd, a company registered in England (registered office available on request via compliance@hotmessldn.com). When these terms say "HOTMESS," "we," or "us," that means Smash Daddys Ltd. "You" means you, the person using the platform.
§ 02 · FOUNDING MEMBERSHIP
By signing up to the founding cohort, you agree:
- You are 18 years or older.
- You will provide accurate information at signup (email, name, username, city).
- Your claimed username is yours permanently as long as your account remains in good standing.
- Your founding badge (ORIGINAL 50, FOUNDING MEMBER, or EARLY MEMBER) is permanent recognition — it survives any pricing change.
- Founding membership is free and remains so for the duration specified at signup (lifetime for Original 50 and Founding; 6 months Hotmess tier for Early, then drops to the free tier with badge retained).
§ 03 · WHAT YOU CAN DO
- Appear on the Pulse globe with the visibility level you choose (Pulse / Right Now / Discreet Mode / The Disappear).
- Use the Safety Suite — The Window, The Exit, The Disappear, SOS — for yourself, with the trusted contacts you nominate.
- Browse Ghosted, message other members, attend events, claim beacons.
- Listen to HOTMESS Radio without signup.
- Withdraw from any feature, delete any consent, delete your account, at any time.
§ 04 · WHAT YOU AGREE NOT TO DO
- Impersonate another person or organisation.
- Harvest, scrape, or republish member data or content.
- Use the platform to harass, dox, or threaten anyone.
- Misrepresent another member's recovery status or out them in any way.
- Attempt to bypass the Safety Suite's rate limits or use SOS for non-emergency purposes.
- Use the platform for any illegal purpose.
§ 05 · SAFETY SUITE
The Safety Suite is harm-reduction infrastructure. It is not an emergency service. SOS notifies your trusted contacts; it does not dial 999 / 112 / 911. For police, fire, or medical emergencies, you remain responsible for contacting professional emergency services. We document this in the Safety Suite UI itself, on every primitive.
§ 06 · YOUR DATA
See the Privacy Policy for the full account of what we collect, why, how long we keep it, and how to exercise every UK GDPR right. Cookies Policy covers what your browser stores.
§ 07 · TERMINATION
- You can delete your account at any time. We erase your data within 30 days, retaining only what UK law requires (statutory accounting records do not apply to free members).
- We can suspend or terminate accounts that materially breach § 04 above. We will tell you why. You can appeal to compliance@hotmessldn.com.
§ 08 · CHANGES TO THESE TERMS
Material changes are notified by email at least 14 days before they take effect. Cosmetic changes are made in place; the version and updated date at the top of this page always reflect the current state. If you don't agree to a material change, you can delete your account before the change takes effect — your founding badge survives the deletion in the platform credits.
§ 09 · JURISDICTION
These terms are governed by the laws of England and Wales. Disputes are subject to the exclusive jurisdiction of the courts of England and Wales — except where consumer-protection law gives you the right to bring proceedings in your local jurisdiction.
§ 10 · CONTACT
General: welcome@hotmessldn.com. Care / safety: care@hotmessldn.com. Compliance: compliance@hotmessldn.com.
IN MEMORY OF DJ LEE HARRIS · CO-FOUNDER, IN SPIRIT